Photograph by Lloyd Lemmermann
A few weeks ago I had the opportunity to help a friend capture part of the vision he has had for his work as a photographer. While I was initially surprised to have been asked, I wasn't surprised in the least bit to hear myself say "Yes" to his invitation. The truth is...I love to be daring. I enjoy doing things that scare me or push my so-called limits to the edge. I'm willing to try pretty much anything once. I've had nude photographs taken of me before, but it was a woman behind the camera that time. This time it was a man.
Looking at nude photography might make some people uncomfortable, but I'm all for appreciating and admiring the human body sans clothes. But...what's it like when it's your naked body that's being photographed? How does it feel to be seen by another who's not your mother or your mate? What dared me to spend a couple hours being in, what I imagine many folks would consider, a vulnerable state?
I wanted to see what my body looked like through the eyes of another. I wanted to see the shapes, lines, and shadows without standing in front of a mirror. I wanted to see a different perspective of me. I wanted to see what a photograph of me as a naked woman would say. As I've gotten older and my body has changed, it's been way too often I hear a harsh voice filled with unkind words.
So why should we dare to expose our most naked selves to another human being? Whether it's in the literal sense (having nude photographs taken) or a figurative one (such as telling the truth even when it scares the hell out of us)...being authentic and vulnerable and willing to take a risk can lead to a greater awareness of ourselves as well as a deeper understanding of and appreciation for our relationships with others.
"Truth or Dare" used to be my favorite game as a kid. As an adult, it's turned into Truth and Dare. What truth of yours has dared you to do something new and different? What dare are you ready to take in your life?
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